Many of us have made poor decisions in our lives. Decisions, that even after many years you still can’t make anything of them, much less anything of yourself. Our tendency to strive for individualism strongly influences us and even blinds us from reasoning thus leading to poor decisions. It has happened to me that at the very moment I make a poor decision that will affect my life, I feel as if I am seeing myself in a movie. The movie is on play and suddenly I feel there is nothing I can do to change the past or change what will happen in the future. I feel I no longer have control of my life and the blame game begins. Some of us blame ourselves, our parents, lovers, family, friends, etc. However, how we feel about our lives has nothing to do with blame; I think it has to do with how we chose to address our issues. Do we let the stubbornness of individualism, or on the other hand, do we let our desire to satisfy others motivate our decision-making?